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Tuesday
Sep272016

"Ultimate gesture players can make is living like Arnie"

The timing is bold but the topic has been on the minds of many who follow pro golf: too many of today's lavishly paid stars act in sharp contrast to Arnold Palmer in character, actions and passion for the game.

Ryan Lavner at GolfChannel.com says the passing of Mr. Palmer puts the onus "on the players to decide for themselves how to honor his legacy."

That’s why these days, weeks and months ahead are an important period of reflection for the current pros.

There is an ever-widening divide between fans and the stars of our game, the mega-millionaires who are safe in their cocoon, protected by managers and publicists and image specialists. The money has never been greater – Rory McIlroy deposited $11.44 million Sunday; Palmer made $1.86 million in his career – and the lifestyles never more different. Each year, it seems, they only drift further away, the connection becoming more tenuous.

And so, moving forward, will our stars use their fame, their fortune and their status to shield themselves from the public, from the fans that enriched their fabulous lives? Or will they stay grounded and humble and relatable – will they stay connected – the way Palmer did?

The Olympic Zika virus fiasco this summer opened the door to this discussion and while the debate is not something that should overshadow the remembrances of The King, but throwing the point out seems fair as we hear from the players over the next few days about how they view Palmer's legacy and their places in the game.

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First, many thanks to Geoff for opening comments on this post. I've missed the education I receive every time I read from the knowledgeable commenters here, and I sincerely hope that, in the hope of future opportunities for readers to comment, the more uncouth among us will, in the spirit of Arnie, either find their manners or hold their comments.

I never had an opportunity to meet him, but I've seen video of the scene that would follow the man wherever he went. It seems there are few known to history with greater charisma or a more richly deserved group of fans.

On this post, I think emulating Arnie would be the single greatest way to grow the game imaginable. The chance to meet a star athlete in such intimate surroundings as a golf tournament affords would hugely encourage people to bring their children, and the rest would follow naturally.

A quick aside about the "What's My Line?" video: watch the eyes of the panel following Arnie as he exited the stage. More specifically, the eyes of the two women on the panel. A small but telling testament to the personal charisma Mr. Palmer wielded so effortlessly.
09.27.2016 | Unregistered CommenterPersimmonious
Geoff, please enable comments once the Ryder Cup starts. Golf is not the same without the GS comment section weighing in! And this Ryder Cup should have some great storylines that will be worthy of fun discussion, Davis Love has assured that.
09.27.2016 | Unregistered CommenterChodolo
No one could live like Arnold Palmer except Arnold Palmer. We can only be the best we can be and that's enough. The world is different today, every move pros make today is scrutinized by an unrelenting media, but in Arnie's time, a lot went on the public wouldn't hear about. Having said all that, every sportsman can learn from Arnie's great legacy in golf, a big reason why it remains the great game it is today.
09.27.2016 | Unregistered CommenterEasingwold
I spent last evening watching the Golf Channel documentary "Arnie" - for the second time. I was left feeling that anyone, golf pro or not, could do very well by living their life in a way similar to Arnie. What a great man!! RIP Mr Arnold Palmer.
09.27.2016 | Unregistered CommenterPress Agent
As others who posted previously, I watched some of the tributes to Arnold Palmer on the Golf Channel. I read a very astute comment made by Phil Mickelson who shared his observations about the first time he played w/ Mr. Palmer. He was an amateur and of course, probably totally in awe of the man, but he was wise enough to observe the man's demeanor and the way he conducted himself on and off the course. He said that he watched Arnie look spectators in the eye, give them a smile and sign endless autographs. Phil also noted how he spoke kindly to everyone associated in any way w/ the tournament. We all see what this did for Phil; his desire to emulate Mr. Palmer has made him a fan favorite. Imitation IS the sincerest form of flattery - walk the walk and talk the talk.
09.27.2016 | Unregistered Commenterberserkeley
re: comments...unless I missed some major happening around here, my understanding was that comments were disabled because of spambot issues. I was searching around one day and thought I saw Geoff say that somewhere on the interwebs (Twitter, maybe?). I agree, it sucks not having comments here.
09.27.2016 | Unregistered Commenterdsl
@dsl agree, especially when the Ryder Cup is getting ready to kick off, and there are already so many good angles to discuss. Should be fun to watch.
09.27.2016 | Unregistered CommenterChodolo
There are very very few people with the charm and charisma of an Arnold Palmer. But I totally agree that today's stars could do with taking a leaf or two out of his book. And I would love to se the comments back on too!!
09.27.2016 | Unregistered CommenterChico
Not knowing the vagaries of the technology, I've been wondering what I did to get excommunicated from the GS comments. I'll be honest, my readership and interest in reading GS has waned w/o the comment section. What penance must we pay to have our dialogue restored!??!?!?

And may Arnie continue to inspire and mentor the golf community.
09.27.2016 | Unregistered CommenterForeRight!
AP , as a young man, lived in a time whereby superstars of any form, be it acting, sports, literature, music, were not scrutinised and got away with murder.

So to ask players to behave more like Arnie...they probably risk too much. As was stated by Peter Alliss, Palmer was a man's man and behaved accordingly. I believe that there are one or two persons who comment on this board have tales of AP's behaviour as a young man that are less than 'Kingly'.

Players are not going to open up to the media, Geoff. Not when they get slammed for doing so on social media. Rory McIlroy is not going to open up to the media after the hammering he took over Wozniacki and his Olympics comments. Tiger isn't going to open up post-hydrant and porn addiction boot camp. And Fowler, Spieth and Thomas ain't going to open up after getting a shoeing for what was known as #SB2K16. The age of social media, smartphone cameras and media head-hunting rules the day.

Love the comments being open though. Why were they closed offf?
09.27.2016 | Unregistered CommenterCenter Cut
Before he passed away, I wish someone in the media had asked Arnie about the joyless robo-pros that populate the PGA tour today. The answer would have been priceless. I am talking about the ones that seldom, if ever, acknowledge the fans when the cheer, the ones that don't even smile when they make a birdie or eagle, and the ones that blow off the kids looking for an autograph when they strut out of the scorers' tent at the end of a round. Someone needs to remind these stiffs that they are in the entertainment business...several of them will be donning red, white, and blue this week.
09.27.2016 | Unregistered Commentersurfmeister
harvey levin would love nothing more than for current golf pros to live like Arnie did!!!
09.27.2016 | Unregistered Commenterits a TMZ world
I e mailed Geoff some time ago about the comments, he replied he was fixing the problem and thanked us for our patience, so I'm assuming (and hoping) the comments section will return soon.
09.27.2016 | Unregistered CommenterEasingwold
I disagree with Lavner's opinion about today's tour pros. Arnie lived and rose to fame in another era. Just look at the scrutiny of DL3's "best team ever assembled" comment. In order for the 24/7 news/blogosphere cycle to survive, it constantly needs to find an antagonist or controversy. Remember when Spieth signed with AT&T and Coke, he took a lot of heat on this blog. Palmer, however, could plug every item known to man, including cigarettes, and was above reproach. Considering the environment in which they compete (recall Monica Seles, e.g.), today's tour pros are pretty affable and approachable.
09.27.2016 | Unregistered CommenterBoros
Love how they fondly remember Arnold Palmer when in the press center with their hats on, and no sponsors logo excuse this week.
09.27.2016 | Unregistered CommenterPABoy
I don't want to speak for Geoff but the comments section has been an issue because of a cyber attack. I asked him about it and be assured me he is working on a solution. like most of the regulars on this board, I miss the banter. Let's leave Geoff to it and focus on Arnie.
09.27.2016 | Unregistered CommenterKg
Easingwold,
We must have been thinking the same thing at the same time. Cheers.
09.27.2016 | Unregistered CommenterKg
My own Arnie story.

Back in 2000, the Senior US Open was hosted at Saucon Valley in Northeast, PA. I had nothing going on that Friday and decided to go up to catch the 2nd round.

I'd been there a few hours, was getting thirsty. I decided to find a vendor tent to get a bottle of water. On my way, I just casually look up and see Roger Maltbie walking straight toward me, his headset was draped around his neck and he was chugging a bottle of water. I just smiled as I passed him and said, "Hey, huge fan of the NBC Golf crew. Keep up the great work!" He looked me dead in the eyes, said nothing, kept right on walking like he didn't even hear me. Oh well... whatever. I guess he had a rough night last night.

So an hour later, I'm looking to follow a few different players. I look over and I see this sudden rush of people racing to the near tee box. Then I see Arnie, shuffling along the roped-off path up to the tee box. Wow... no way I can squeeze in there, so I'll head down in the fairway and maybe see him hit his approach. So I race down there, standing under a huge oak tree. Two tee balls were hit, both fairly long and straight, one more guy to tee off. I couldn't see the tee box from where I was, but I assumed Arnie was hitting last. Then I hear "Fore Right!" and no sooner than I heard that, a ball comes whizzing by overhead and hits the very tree I'm standing under. The ball caroms off a few limbs, lands a mere 15 feet away. Horrible lie, deep rough, another tree about 40 yards ahead obstructing a clear shot to the green. We're talking stymieville.

Sure enough, it was Arnie's ball that nearly took my head off! LOL... within about 90 seconds, I'm suddenly surrounded by 75 or so people in the gallery. Arnie finally makes his way up to the ball, fetches a club out of his bag, looks at the lie, looks at the tree straight ahead. He's got nothing.

I'll never forget watching him place his hands on the grip of that club. These huge hands, that just seemed like they were designed for the sole purpose to grip a golf club... so comfortably, so perfectly... and he leisurely made a few practice swings, looking at the tree, then he stopped long enough to grab another club and talk to his caddie about the yardage to the front of the green. As he's about to address the ball, he suddenly stops, looking straight at me. I thought for a second that maybe I'd distracted him somehow. But that wasn't it.

Looking straight at me, a smile breaks out on his face. "So tell me, young man... if this were you, what might you do?" The gallery laughed along with me. Without missing a beat, I said, "Mr. Palmer, with all these people watching me - I've no doubt that I'd completely whiff it!" He started laughing, the gallery burst out laughing, it was just one of those moments you never forget. Then Arnie replied, "Well... I must say that that wasn't the image I was hoping for, but at least you're honest!" He smiled and gave me a wink.

I'll never forget that day. Ever.

On the way home that evening, I thought about two contrasting situations I encountered that day. The first was a situation when a former touring pro-turned on-course golf analyst, whose career wouldn't qualify as a mere footnote in the annals of golf history, decided to not even acknowledge a kind compliment. And then, of course, what happened that one hole an hour later, with the one and only legend - Arnold Palmer - allowing me to become a part of his enormous life for those 30 seconds.

Do you have any idea how special that made me feel? That Arnold Palmer, of all people, singled me out and wanted to interact with me?!

Arnie had every reason to be frustrated and upset that day. He would go on to bogey the hole, he would eventually shoot an 82 and miss the cut. But despite how he was playing, he still took the time and found it important enough to acknowledge the presence of a fan.

Arnie was more than just an all-time great golfer. He was a truly wonderful human being who never once took for granted his lot in life.

RIP, King. You may be gone, but everything you did, everything you meant to the game and your fans - that stuff will live forever.
09.27.2016 | Unregistered CommenterPA PLAYA
PA PLAYA, great story, thanks for sharing.

Kg, cheers
09.28.2016 | Unregistered CommenterEasingwold
@PA PLAYA , wonderful story, thank you.

I found myself unexpectedly moved by the excellent coverage by Golf Channel of Arnold's passing on Sunday, even though I never got to meet the man. I did come close, though, and wrote about it here:

https://gregbeau.wordpress.com/2016/09/26/how-i-didnt-get-to-meet-arnold-palmer/

Not as good a story as yours.
09.28.2016 | Unregistered CommenterGreg B.
Nice write-up, Greg B. I think the Golf Channel has done very well managing the situation, trying to maintain and balance their coverage between reflecting on Arnie's life and talking about his passing and then having to also deal with a hectic week coming up with Ryder Cup.

I watched the series they aired about Arnie, with Tom Selleck narrating... thought it was wonderful.

Long live the King
09.28.2016 | Unregistered CommenterPA PLAYA

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